＊＃！＆＊what do u do if ur lover still get sad n all when he/she thinks a

need some help here...
i know that my lover really do loves me...
but then he/she got hurt badly in the last relationship...
whenever he/she thinks about how the ex used to treat him/her..., he/she gets really upset...
what should i do???
when i see him/her get upset, i get upset too..., i know that's stupid, but i really don't know what to do...
what can i do to 'tum' him/her????
thanks...

try to show your love to him/her la... do things that make him/her forget the past....
do things more better than him/her ex la...
do some romantic stuff..  most girls like that...
is normal to get upset.. when him/her is upset.. that's mean.. u really cared about him/her....

ask him so learn how to move over~~
that is what he needto face, and to grow
if not,both of u will not be happy

下面引用由szeszema在 2003/08/15 10:51pm 發表的內容：
ask him so learn how to move over~~
that is what he needto face, and to grow
if not,both of u will not be happy

講得岩。。。 係時候叫佢move on....
history is used to learn and is a memory...why let it bother you?
無愛又點嚟恨﹖  無想又點會傷﹖  如佢係好投入現在﹐ 又點解會諗以前﹖
it's not your responsibility to tum him/her 啩。。。 what you should do is showing him/her what is in front of him/her... and make him/her realize how 幸福he/she is right now.

i understand what u r saying, but the point is, i don't know what to do...
i'm stupid about love

tell him, if u still get mad about ur ex, that means he still care about his ex, tell him if its true, then no point to be with u la

good point, but i don't know if i can do that or not...

just tell u je, hard for u to do ge