＊＃！＆＊你贊不贊成結婚前同居?

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/16 01:09pm 發表的內容：
i'm having mix feeling for this one loh...
b4 i would disagree because it's not fair to the girl to live w/ a guy...
but now that i live w/ my gf, it helps to get to know her...
but then again...  ...

我覺得我而家同同屋好似冇乜分別播
日日都見..
朝又見~
晚又見~

I think live together is no a big deal....but I think it's only wise if you are in a serious relationship...i know for me...i wouldn't be able to live with my bf unless we're engaged or something because I think personal space and privacy is very important and you lose that when you live w/ your bf/gf!!

Well...i don't think it's a big deal to live w/ a guy...but i know i wouldn't do it unless i'm engaged to someone because i need my personal space and privacy and once two people live together...there's no privacy n space...but i think it's a really good idea for couple that decided to get marry to live w/ each other be4 they get marry so they can test out to see if they can live w/ this person 24/7!

下面引用由bubbles在 2003/07/17 01:08pm 發表的內容：
Well...i don't think it's a big deal to live w/ a guy...but i know i wouldn't do it unless i'm engaged to someone because i need my personal space and privacy and once two people live together...t ...

i agree w/ bubbles, you're really giving up lots of personal and privacy space... and it really depends if you're willing to do that for the person...
i've been living w/ my gf for almost 2 yrs... at first i wasn't used to it at all, seeing her everywhere i go (beside the 8 hrs i have work)... but at school and home... and you learn to adopt each other's living life style... kinda like at first when you just moved in w/ ur roomate... but then more extreme, coz these little habits of yours can either get ur ass in trouble and start an argument or you learn to get rid of them... it's hard... and it kills the relatioship faster...
but as kinderEgg said earlier... married ppl get divorce too lah... so who knows...

just like the chinese saying, its easy to be with each other, but living with each other is a lot harder, the more time u spend with him/her, the more negatives u will notice about each other, but i still think its no big deal ge, just do whatever u feel comfortable law

好一句"相見好﹐同住難"
講真我同佢都一齊住0左咁耐﹐都關囉。
互相仍合嘛...

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/19 04:56am 發表的內容：
好一句"相見好﹐同住難"
講真我同佢都一齊住0左咁耐﹐都關囉。
互相仍合嘛...

then... will u get married with her??
as i think, when the guy lives with gf, he won't want to get married...
maybe because they live together already. the only thing miss just the marriage paper!!

下面引用由ka在 2003/07/19 01:15pm 發表的內容：
then... will u get married with her??
as i think, when the guy lives with gf, he won't want to get married...
maybe because they live together already. the only thing miss just the marriage paper!!

i want to... but i don't think her parents will approve our marriage... beside she's an international student, she will go back to HK when she is done w/ school... (which is next summer) and there is nothing i can do about it...

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/19 05:35am 發表的內容：
i want to... but i don't think her parents will approve our marriage... beside she's an international student, she will go back to HK when she is done w/ school... (which is next summer) and there ...

r u foreign too??? if yes, u can go back hk with her ga!! ^_^"
if no, u can married her, then she can stay here lor!!!

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/19 12:56pm 發表的內容：
好一句"相見好﹐同住難"
講真我同佢都一齊住0左咁耐﹐都關囉。
互相仍合嘛...

careful ar, hope u are not "use to it" so u are with her
like a habit, then wont turn out good
ah ka, living together now je, doesnt mean wont marry ge, dont be so grey la