＊＃！＆＊你地會點“tum" bf 開心﹖﹖

szeszema , what do u mean add value on yourself ah?  

i will say, i will try my best to make him happy lor... whatever he likes, i will do it.
whatever he likes to eat, i will learn it and cook it
whatever he want to see, i will satisfy him...
but... the most important thing is... i will act myself 100% so he will be also happy because he know the real me.
doing something in purposely but it's not you it's totally meaningless... he might be happy for a while but then, what about after all....???
see....

Very true 教主...it must be lucky to be your bf....hehe

教主我跟硬你啦~
我要學邪花功......

wei, but 邪花功係要嚟對付D衰男人架喎。
hahaha... you sure you want to learn?
不過都好以好正氣既。。。
都係嗰句啦﹐ 要人愛惜你﹐ 關心你﹐ 對你好﹐ 首先自己要付出先。  
可能佢開頭會唔識珍惜﹐但遲早有一日佢會明既。  

嘩∼　好深呀∼

下面引用由邪花教教主在 2003/08/07 04:29am 發表的內容：
wei, but 邪花功係要嚟對付D衰男人架喎。
hahaha... you sure you want to learn?
不過都好以好正氣既。。。
都係嗰句啦﹐ 要人愛惜你﹐ 關心你﹐ 對你好﹐ 首先自己要付出先。  
...

講得好！！"要人愛惜你﹐ 關心你﹐ 對你好﹐ 首先自己要付出先。  "
不過，我覺得呢樣就未必 ===>"可能佢開頭會唔識珍惜﹐但遲早有一日佢會明既。"
如果個個人係唔鐘意你，甘。。你點等，or 點付出都係冇用！！
of course，咩都有exception既！！ 嘻嘻！！

好KOOL喎~

下面引用由傻美桃在 2003/08/07 01:06am 發表的內容：
szeszema , what do u mean add value on yourself ah?

for example get new knowledge to b/come more smart
or for girl more important things is to "decorate" urself
b/c for guy, consiously and unconsiously very care about "look"
if he thinks you are totally nothing , then no matter how valuable the "things" u give, he won't appreciated
inversely, if he value you high, then even u give him a paper, he will still think that is the most valuable things for him.
It is because YOU not the 'paper'

下面引用由ka在 2003/08/07 07:20pm 發表的內容：
講得好！！"要人愛惜你﹐ 關心你﹐ 對你好﹐ 首先自己要付出先。  "
不過，我覺得呢樣就未必 ===>"可能佢開頭會唔識珍惜﹐但遲早有一日佢會明既。"
如果個個人係唔鐘意你，甘。。你點等 ...

我都明既。 所以我話 ”可能“ 囉
我覺得去愛一個人﹐ 就好似投資咁。
你首先要放你既本錢(例如﹕感請﹐時間﹐ 心血) 落去﹐ 試吓work 唔work。  有回報時﹐你會開心。 但無回報時你會諗﹐ “ 應唔應該繼續投資呢﹖“ 如果你相信你自己既眼光﹐ 咁咪堅持保倉投資囉。如果你覺得唔值既﹐ 係時後嶔倉咯﹐ 咁你咪知點做囉。你既一舉一動都好會影嚮個big picture.   
你要一邊投資一邊睇吓仲值唔值得繼續落去。  結果係點未到最尾都無人知既。 你可能會跌到損手爛腳﹐ 但又可能會大獲全勝。
不過唯一唔同既係--- 對方係人唔係死物﹐ 佢唔係數字﹐ 佢認該係有feeling 既。  佢可以俾hints 你知道你有無機會﹐ 視乎佢係一個賤人定係一個好人。。。