＊＃！＆＊你贊不贊成結婚前同居?

你贊不贊成結婚前同居?
please comment, thanks!

i dont think its a big deal, if u want to live together ge wa, then live together law, nothing wrong.

下面引用由sora813在 2003/07/15 04:42pm 發表的內容：
i dont think its a big deal, if u want to live together ge wa, then live together law, nothing wrong.

well... for guys... of course they dont mind la!!
they have nothing to lose...
for girls, even though she doesn't mind, their parents won't let her to do that!!
at least, she lives alone such as foreign

i'm having mix feeling for this one loh...
b4 i would disagree because it's not fair to the girl to live w/ a guy...
but now that i live w/ my gf, it helps to get to know her...
but then again... it kinda kills a relationship...
but then... hmm... i don't know... the list can go on for good and bad ga woh..

下面引用由ka在 2003/07/16 10:35am 發表的內容：
well... for guys... of course they dont mind la!!
they have nothing to lose...
for girls, even though she doesn't mind, their parents won't let her to do that!!
at least, she lives alone such as ...

not true, its 21st century la, women always fight for equal rights, so  guys have nothing to lose ge, if a relationship not going to work ge wa, either side can lose, live together or in a relationship not just about sex

i agree with what 艾力said!
you MAY get to know the other person more, but it definitely will lead the relationship to extremes, either very very stable, or totally can't work out! its a very big risk.
i don't agree with couples who just started not long ago to live together.
but its very hard to say ge, even married couples will divorce! sigh...
hard to say!

下面引用由sora813在 2003/07/16 05:53am 發表的內容：
not true, its 21st century la, women always fight for equal rights, so  guys have nothing to lose ge, if a relationship not going to work ge wa, either side can lose, live together or in a relatio ...

ask ur-self deeply la.... guys and girls can't be equal...
just one fact, can guys birth a baby????? =p

下面引用由ka在 2003/07/16 09:53pm 發表的內容：
ask ur-self deeply la.... guys and girls can't be equal...
just one fact, can guys birth a baby????? =p

we are not talking about give birth ar, i am talking about feelings wor, not only girls get hurt ga la, guys can be hurt too ga,  have no feelings ga

i think ka wanna say that ppl have different perceptive toward b/g
if u r male, if u previously live w/ ur g/f , then ppl will pay less attention and think it's acceptable
but if u r female, then ppl will think she is a bad girl ga~~
and it is sad that we can't totally ignore others' perception on us.
因为人的心此终是脆弱的，太多地批评会让人失去理性~~

女仔係好多方面都係si dai D...唔係咁好囉