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yeah...i agree.
most of the times are girls who care about age.
i care about age, but what all u guys said is true too.
it really depends on the person.
i have this white guy friend, he's 30 something, but he's still not stable. he is still playing around, and saying that he was serious everytime, but obviously he is not.
so when i look at him, i understand you can't make age=maturity.

i kind of want my gf to be around my age, maybe older i dont mind, maybe its because my last 6 years was spend with 2 childish gf la

icic......yeah
i think if your bf/gf are too childish to you, its really 難定!
i mean, its not really their fault....and its hard for them to change.

but.... i don't want my bf younger than me wo....
maybe old doesn't mean mature.... but at least, old ppl would be much mature than young ppl...
i met someone was young (around 20) who was really mature, but i found out he still
had some immature acted and thought later on. so.... i think mature really take time and
experience....

下面引用由ka在 2003/07/19 02:37am 發表的內容：
.... i think mature really take time and experience....

i agree w/ ka... coz being mature is based on experience, i mean some ppl may have the mind to think mature, but not necessary to be mature enough to solve or deal w/ problems or issues... i.e. the guy may be mature as a whole person, but just can't deal w/ love issues...

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/19 04:30am 發表的內容：
i agree w/ ka... coz being mature is based on experience, i mean some ppl may have the mind to think mature, but not necessary to be mature enough to solve or deal w/ problems or issues... i.e. th ...

yup.... totally agree with u!! :em02:
i think person learn a lot at work because he/she see (meet)
different kind of things (people).

but there are also a lot of things u will learn not from work
it really depends on that person's experiences or his personality

下面引用由sora813在 2003/07/19 05:40am 發表的內容：
but there are also a lot of things u will learn not from work
it really depends on that person's experiences or his personality

yup.. that is true ....
then... that is why... older people are more mature lor...
because they have a lot different kind of experiences ma!!! hehee

you guys are right, what you encounter in ur life time can teach you lots of lessons... dealing w/ different types of ppl and seeing how ppl treat each situation you learn to know what's the good and bad ways...

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/19 06:02am 發表的內容：
you guys are right, what you encounter in ur life time can teach you lots of lessons... dealing w/ different types of ppl and seeing how ppl treat each situation you learn to know what's the good  ...

well..... but.. at the other side, i dont like the real world.....
ppl r fake. they can do anything for their goal...
this is so "dark".
u never know who is ur real frd and who isn't...
then... u begin to not treat anyone!!!