＊＃！＆＊What is the best way to move on???

i dont think u can forget anyone, just lost that feeling

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/19 05:34am 發表的內容：
how long did that take u to forget the person?

well... hard to tell u how long..
because we were together like 5,6 yrs. we broke up few times.
however, i knew or i should say we knew we weren't right for each other anymore.
then.... we broke up and be frds!!
it was really hard time because we knew we still liked each other, but things didn't work out!
i know it should be over and keeped telling myself to forget that!
hmm.... i guess 6-9 months!! it really takes time!!
so......kinderEgg... i know u will be fine!! ^_^"

下面引用由ka在 2003/07/19 01:46pm 發表的內容：
... we knew we weren't right for each other anymore.

just curious... and shut me up if i'm getting too nosy but... when couples say that 我同你都唔挾﹐不如分手... 我唔明係點解會無啦啦話唔挾就可以分手呢﹖唔挾唔可以互相遷就咩﹖coz i thought that's what a relationship is... it's about互相遷就...

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/19 06:06am 發表的內容：
just curious... and shut me up if i'm getting too nosy but... when couples say that 我同你都唔挾﹐不如分手... 我唔明係點解會無啦啦話唔挾就可以分手呢﹖唔挾唔可以互相遷就咩﹖coz i thought that's wh ...

well... hehe.. i knew u would ask that somehow...
i know.. it was kind not make any sense.....
hmm... how to say that... the more u know each other, the more u got "mo loi"
because something we knew can't change, no matter how hard we tried
then... i guess ... the best way was to break up be frds before we can't.

唔通一齊耐0左就會感到無奈之後就會分開﹖
個個女仔都係咁0架﹖

yeah...thankQ ka, i think i am doing pretty fine now, its just that the "hurt" feeling keeps bugging me once in a while, and it really frustrates me, so im not sure if i've moved on yet.

下面引用由艾力在 2003/07/19 09:28am 發表的內容：
唔通一齊耐0左就會感到無奈之後就會分開﹖
個個女仔都係咁0架﹖

hmm..... not really.. how should i say that..
when a couple begins together, everything is so nice...
u would do whatever ur half like.. and wouldn't do anything she/he doesnt like, right??
but.... after a while, the feeling not that deep.. u would want to do something u like again..
then.... love can't cover that anymore......
also, things are changing ga ma.... or ppl will change too....
so.... i guess.... he or me or both had changed lor.... so.. things didn't work out anymore!!!

下面引用由kinderEgg531在 2003/07/19 10:41am 發表的內容：
yeah...thankQ ka, i think i am doing pretty fine now, its just that the "hurt" feeling keeps bugging me once in a while, and it really frustrates me, so im not sure if i've moved on yet.

that is good.. just once in a while...
u will be fine later on ga la!!! add oil!!! ^_^"
i am sure u will fall in love soon ga la!!!  :em02:

下面引用由ka在 2003/07/19 08:29pm 發表的內容：
u would do whatever ur half like.. and wouldn't do anything she/he doesnt like, right??
but.... after a while, the feeling not that deep.. u would want to do something u like again..
then.... love can't cover that anymore......

我諗我明白妳講乜啦。咁係咪兩個人一開波就會互相遷就﹐叫做乜都會做。但係當兩個人一齊耐0左﹐呢仲遷就性就唔會再有。而人性最基本0既自私又再出0黎?!咁講都幾可怕。唔通樣樣0野包括愛情總有一日會過期。

我覺得真愛係唔會過期
佢只係會升華去另一個階段。